Really??

Things I want to say today It's been a shit day.  After  a shit night.  After another shit day. Here are some apologies, requests, and questions for the world. Mailwoman: I am sorry you can't get to my mailbox.  My bad - not yours!  I pray you don't stress about the fact that you couldn't … Continue reading Really??

The Covert Narcissist & Lies

Wow.   Just......wow. 10 days ago my narc was caught lying.  He lied about his income and his affairs.  He stormed out of a deposition because he was confronted with evidence about his affairs.  He admitted to hiding income, lying about selling our business, and withholding pertinent information.  Lies on top of lies. Since he … Continue reading The Covert Narcissist & Lies

Disabled or Faker?

Many people are on disability for a clearly apparent reason.  It is obvious, when you see them get out of their car in the handicap spot that they are disabled.  Many others though, don't appear to be disabled.  That is my category - the disabled ghost. It is embarrassing and frustrating to repeatedly hear "you … Continue reading Disabled or Faker?

If Restaurants Ran Like Our Health Care System

I am a consumer of health care in the US.  I am also a restaurant owner.  I am often so stunned at what passes as acceptable behavior in our health care system, I can't help but compare it to service in the food industry. If restaurants ran like health care in the US, here's what … Continue reading If Restaurants Ran Like Our Health Care System