Divorce and Your Mortgage

This is a serious rant, so if you aren't in the mood to listen to me bitch about what to many is trivial bullshit, Stop Reading.  I also curse. My ex stopped paying the mortgage on our jointly owned house in October.  He is living with his GF, and I am in our house with … Continue reading Divorce and Your Mortgage

I’m Moving On!!!!

What a week!  In my wildest dreams I could not have envisioned the week I've had.   Three Huge Things Happened.  I'll explain them in reverse. The 3rd thing happened today.  Today I had another divorce hearing.  I assumed it would amount to nothing, especially when my attorney called me at 9AM to tell me … Continue reading I’m Moving On!!!!

What If?

I know....don't get your hopes up. Tomorrow is a hearing in front of a "Master" regarding distribution of property.  This is how a contentious divorce works in PA.   If the parties are not amenable to binding arbitration, the process is broken into 3 parts:  support, custody and equitable distribution.  On the surface this seems … Continue reading What If?

The Covert Narcissist & Lies

Wow.   Just......wow. 10 days ago my narc was caught lying.  He lied about his income and his affairs.  He stormed out of a deposition because he was confronted with evidence about his affairs.  He admitted to hiding income, lying about selling our business, and withholding pertinent information.  Lies on top of lies. Since he … Continue reading The Covert Narcissist & Lies

Divorce, Foreclosure & the USPS

What, you ask, is this picture?  It is the 11 pieces of mail, mailed on the same day.   (In case that is not clear, each one is dated November 30, 2016, by the bank that sent them.)  Half were sent certified, the other half regular mail.  All were sent by our mortgage lender.  So many issues....where … Continue reading Divorce, Foreclosure & the USPS