The Essence of Yoga

God bless her, my mother keeps asking me to teach her some "yoga poses".  It makes sense.  I taught her dance aerobics, step aerobics, zumba, weight lifting and roller blading.  Each craze I've embraced, she's embraced, and I adore her for it.   So why did I get so annoyed when she kept pushing me … Continue reading The Essence of Yoga

Anger, Grief & Death

My bosses 19 year old son died at 4:33 today.  He suffered severe cerebral palsy from birth, and his past 3 years had been particularly cruel.  He had 4 major surgeries, each resulting in major complications.  Yesterday he suffered cardiac arrest.  Today they made the decision to remove the ventilator keeping him alive, and he … Continue reading Anger, Grief & Death

Listening with My Heart

My family has fractured because of this election.  Half of the family is on one side, half on the other, and there are people no longer speaking to each other.  I'm afraid that if someone dies we'll have to have  Trump - Anti-Trump sides in the church, with  Ushers  asking  which side we belong to. … Continue reading Listening with My Heart

Stockholm Syndrome: The Narc’s Legacy

Damn! I just read what I wrote the other day about the counter-offer my covert narc spouse made me.  When I wrote that post I was clear that this offer was a manipulation and game playing on his part.  But somewhere during the past day or two, I've become distracted. Perhaps it was my lawyer … Continue reading Stockholm Syndrome: The Narc’s Legacy

The Narc Never Gives Up

If you've been following me you know I'm trying to divorce a covert narcissist, with whom I own a restaurant.  We had a hearing with a Master and the Masters recommendation, while totally screwing me over, was enough for me to attempt another negotiation.  So I sent an offer, in line with what the Master … Continue reading The Narc Never Gives Up