The Narcissist and Words

Two weekends ago my son was with his narcissistic father.  When my son came home he told me he had not worked either of the 2 shifts he'd been scheduled for at his job.  Needless to say he was subsequently fired.   Today he started a new job.  He is training tonight and tomorrow, and … Continue reading The Narcissist and Words

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Oprah & the Covert Narcissist

What is the Truth?   I've been trying for 3 days to write a blog about Oprah's Golden Globe speech without referencing my ex narc.  Alas, it is not meant to be.  I am compelled to write about the intersection of my ex narc and Oprah. Quick background - my ex left his 1st wife … Continue reading Oprah & the Covert Narcissist

Actions Speak Louder than Words

My oldest son is 25.  I mention this because he is now the age that represents the amount of time I was with his father.  He spent copious amounts of time as a child with his dad, traveling around playing baseball.  For him this meant time with his dad, which has influenced his thought process.  … Continue reading Actions Speak Louder than Words

When Bad Things Happen To Bad People

I think it's called Karma? Background: The support my ex was stipulated to pay was increased, substantially, on 2/1 The amount he actually paid did not go up.  At all. His response, when I asked him about it, was "that's between the state and my employer.  I have nothing to do with it" I spent … Continue reading When Bad Things Happen To Bad People