Toilet Seats

I need some lightening up so..... A while back I wrote a blog about toilet seats & narcissists.  My narc never put the seat down.  When I complained he said "I think you should have to put it up for me".   When I pointed out that he wasn't likely to fall in he responded........with … Continue reading Toilet Seats

Projection

This is embarrassing to admit - even with a MA degree in Psychology I did not understand the power of projection. I loved studying Psychology but honestly, I approached it the way Catholics approach the bible.  The ideas/stories in the bible, according to Catholicism,  are metaphorical.  I don't think I've ever heard a Catholic claim … Continue reading Projection

When Bad Things Happen To Bad People

I think it's called Karma? Background: The support my ex was stipulated to pay was increased, substantially, on 2/1 The amount he actually paid did not go up.  At all. His response, when I asked him about it, was "that's between the state and my employer.  I have nothing to do with it" I spent … Continue reading When Bad Things Happen To Bad People