Revenge

It took about 1 year for me to realize I had been married to, and was now divorcing, a covert narcissist.  Memories flooded back.  I had a hard time figuring out where to put the feelings, heartbreak and regret; hence this blog.  At one point I wrote The Tractor.  It was partially autobiographical but mostly … Continue reading Revenge

Be Proactive with Narcissist

I was advised, early in my divorce, to take control of the process.  Close accounts, force issues, freeze assets, etc.  I didn't, because I was conditioned to not threaten my narcissist.  I had been taught to think that revenge would be horrible.  I say conditioned because in retrospect, I can count on 1 hand the … Continue reading Be Proactive with Narcissist