Shadow Self-Narcissist Fuel

  If you are connected to a narcissist, you probably wrestle with your shadow self.  Some aspects of our shadow self are survival instincts no longer necessary to survive.  The most toxic parts of our shadow self though come from parents.  If you were raised by a narcissist or other disordered person, you have been  … Continue reading Shadow Self-Narcissist Fuel

Journey vs. Trek

I've hated the word "journey" ever since I was diagnosed with cancer.  When first diagnosed, you enter a surreal world in which you are purported to be many things you are not:  a hero, a fighter, a warrior, an inspiration, and on a journey.   It's crazy, because it happens in no other medical condition; … Continue reading Journey vs. Trek

Narcissists Love A Good Show!

One of the reasons we get hooked by the covert narc is that they take every Public Opportunity to be the Good Guy.  Everyone raves about what a great guy they are, because everything they do is  in public. This week is the perfect example, and thank God,  I see it for what it is. … Continue reading Narcissists Love A Good Show!