Stockholm Syndrome: The Narc’s Legacy

Damn! I just read what I wrote the other day about the counter-offer my covert narc spouse made me.  When I wrote that post I was clear that this offer was a manipulation and game playing on his part.  But somewhere during the past day or two, I've become distracted. Perhaps it was my lawyer … Continue reading Stockholm Syndrome: The Narc’s Legacy

The Narc Never Gives Up

If you've been following me you know I'm trying to divorce a covert narcissist, with whom I own a restaurant.  We had a hearing with a Master and the Masters recommendation, while totally screwing me over, was enough for me to attempt another negotiation.  So I sent an offer, in line with what the Master … Continue reading The Narc Never Gives Up

Deal Breakers = Boundaries

I've always thought that people who claim certain characteristics/beliefs/habits are "deal breakers" are excessively picky.  I've stood firm in this judgement.  One friend in particular has a ton of deal breakers:  he's shorter then I, he's not successful professionally, he's an engineer, he has no sense of humor, he doesn't like Bruce Springsteen, etc. etc. … Continue reading Deal Breakers = Boundaries