A Letter To My Son(s)

I had dinner with 2 of my sons tonight.  One is turning 25 in a few weeks, and he told me his plan.  He wants to rent a party bus which will take a bunch of people around the city for a safe night of partying.  He mentioned it because he wanted to know - … Continue reading A Letter To My Son(s)

Boundaries Enrich Life

If you are mired in the clutches of a narcissist you probably have no idea what boundaries are, let alone how to use them.  I am a newbie to boundaries so my information is limited, but I am an expert on a lack of boundaries and the end result. Boundaries, if you don't know, are … Continue reading Boundaries Enrich Life

Actions To Take When Divorcing A Narcissist

How To Survive Divorcing a Narcissistic Asshole In the Order You'll Face Them (I say guy, could be girl) If you are like me, you are heading in to a divorce with someone you suspect is a Bad Guy, perhaps  a narcissist.  Trust me when I tell you:  If you suspect it, it is true. … Continue reading Actions To Take When Divorcing A Narcissist

What If?

I know....don't get your hopes up. Tomorrow is a hearing in front of a "Master" regarding distribution of property.  This is how a contentious divorce works in PA.   If the parties are not amenable to binding arbitration, the process is broken into 3 parts:  support, custody and equitable distribution.  On the surface this seems … Continue reading What If?