I Think I’m The Problem

It's not a far-fetched idea, that I am the problem.  I'm the one here with my boys, day in , day out.  If they are on the edge, teetering between happiness and misery, isn't that my doing, not the ex's?  He's not here to influence them - I am.   And it seems that I'm … Continue reading I Think I’m The Problem

Deal Breakers = Boundaries

I've always thought that people who claim certain characteristics/beliefs/habits are "deal breakers" are excessively picky.  I've stood firm in this judgement.  One friend in particular has a ton of deal breakers:  he's shorter then I, he's not successful professionally, he's an engineer, he has no sense of humor, he doesn't like Bruce Springsteen, etc. etc. … Continue reading Deal Breakers = Boundaries