Be Proactive with Narcissist

I was advised, early in my divorce, to take control of the process.  Close accounts, force issues, freeze assets, etc.  I didn't, because I was conditioned to not threaten my narcissist.  I had been taught to think that revenge would be horrible.  I say conditioned because in retrospect, I can count on 1 hand the … Continue reading Be Proactive with Narcissist

Divorce Attorneys: The Truth

I am cursed with the belief that when dealing with an adult, I'm being told the truth.  I would think that by now I'd be over that, having been repeatedly lied to by my spouse, but no, I still take adults' words at face value.  Given this, I believed my attorney when he expressed outrage … Continue reading Divorce Attorneys: The Truth