Gaslighting

The term Gaslighting appears often these days. I recently read an article titled "Employers Gaslight Employees to Return to Office". The title left me with a knot in my gut. As we recover from Covid shutdowns, employers are anxious to have employees return to the office, but gaslighting them? Clearly this was written by someone … Continue reading Gaslighting

Turn Your Town Teal

#teamtealsix #cancersucks #ovariancancer #sandyrollman #randomactsofteal #tealisthenewpink Purpose What do you do when the shit is all cleaned up?  The divorce is final, your body and soul have healed, you're settled into your new home, your new tribe is established?  When it's all over, something new sets in.  I would describe it as boredom, but it … Continue reading Turn Your Town Teal

What If?

I know....don't get your hopes up. Tomorrow is a hearing in front of a "Master" regarding distribution of property.  This is how a contentious divorce works in PA.   If the parties are not amenable to binding arbitration, the process is broken into 3 parts:  support, custody and equitable distribution.  On the surface this seems … Continue reading What If?

Why I Stayed with My Covert Narcissist

Human Doormat Syndrome   I suffer from Human Doormat Syndrome (HDS).  I'm thinking of starting a recovery program for fellow sufferers.  Like AA, we could come together in a circle, take turns saying "Hi.  I'm MurphyCee and I am a Human Doormat".  Then we could share our stories of how we've willingly allowed others to … Continue reading Why I Stayed with My Covert Narcissist