The Narcissistic Father

  I thought I would feel vindicated when my children finally figured out their narcissistic father.   Instead, I just feel sad. The younger two have known for a while who and what their dad is.  Not much has changed for them. My eldest is the one I've worried about.  My ex always spent the most … Continue reading The Narcissistic Father

A Letter To My Son(s)

I had dinner with 2 of my sons tonight.  One is turning 25 in a few weeks, and he told me his plan.  He wants to rent a party bus which will take a bunch of people around the city for a safe night of partying.  He mentioned it because he wanted to know - … Continue reading A Letter To My Son(s)

Jack Nicholson Face

Forget Resting Bitch Face (RBF) - I have Jack Nicholson Face (JNF) I showed up at work this morning with my JNF. The owner, i.e. my Employer/Boss, sent an email yesterday requesting we begin a new project.  A great project.  A valid, very necessary project.  Except the people she planned to pull to complete the … Continue reading Jack Nicholson Face

Forgiveness: Not For The Narcissist

I'm feeling a bit angry right now.   If you don't follow my blog, here's the key points to know: 1) I spent 25 years with, and am now divorcing, a covert narcissist 2) Yoga has become one of my coping techniques 3) I live in a small community, and me & the ex-narc have … Continue reading Forgiveness: Not For The Narcissist