It Is Not Your Fault

Divorcing A Narcissist I have just come to a divorce settlement with my covert narc (CN).  It took almost 3 years, and it was hell.  As I get over the constant fear I realize how bad it really was.  The most important thing I've learned is this:   This was not my fault. I was … Continue reading It Is Not Your Fault

Are You Saying It’s My Fault?

One of the major issues I had raising children with my narc was his inability to look at himself critically.  As the Chosen One of a Narc, I am excessively good at looking at myself critically.  Ask me, at any random point in any random day, and I will come up with 20 Major Flaws … Continue reading Are You Saying It’s My Fault?