Leave My Attitude Alone

I just finished reading a summation of a celebrities journey with cancer, in which she claims that to survive cancer you must believe you will "win".  She went on to say that all of the "survivors" she knew had this belief.  I am dumbfounded by this.  Of course the women she knows believe they are … Continue reading Leave My Attitude Alone

The Meaning Of Brave

One of my pet peeves of cancer, and a pet peeve of many cancer patients I know, is suddenly being told we are“brave”,  “courageous’, a “fighter” and even a “role model”.   Most other cancer patients I speak with despise these sentiments. It’s not like I Chose Cancer.  I didn’t sidled up to the take out … Continue reading The Meaning Of Brave