Capitalism, Cancer and Outrage

This morning my FaceBook feed alerted me to Sephora's new program, designed to benefit cancer patients.  During a 6 minute video they show bald, scared, suffering women, getting makeup and skin care tips, then walking through the store being shown products by a Sephora employee.  Credits roll.   Women rejoice. Wait....... Right after my 1st round … Continue reading Capitalism, Cancer and Outrage

The Power of Negativity

A lovely woman from my ovarian cancer group died last week.  To be clear, she did not pass, depart or gain her teal wings - she Died. Yesterday was the service, and a group of us drove up together.  It was short and simple.  There was no viewing, no hymns, no priest or minister, and … Continue reading The Power of Negativity

A Letter To My Son(s)

I had dinner with 2 of my sons tonight.  One is turning 25 in a few weeks, and he told me his plan.  He wants to rent a party bus which will take a bunch of people around the city for a safe night of partying.  He mentioned it because he wanted to know - … Continue reading A Letter To My Son(s)

Reluctant Advocate

I've been thinking about how I got involved in ovarian cancer advocacy, and I thought what better place to tell my story.  Humiliating as it is! When I finally settled in to the fact that I had advanced stage cancer, requiring major surgery then 6 rounds of brutal chemo, I made a decision:  I was … Continue reading Reluctant Advocate

Adultary & Bed Bugs

If you are in a relationship with an adulterer, there is the chance you will have to deal with bed bugs at some point.  I had the joy of this while going through chemotherapy.  When I first started seeing streaks of blood on my sheets I assumed it was because of my surgery.  By the … Continue reading Adultary & Bed Bugs

To Blog or Not To Blog

I can't decide if I want this blog to be successful or not.  In fact, the day I had the most reads, I went into a panic.  What if my ex reads this?  What if my kids read this?  What if my parents read this?   What will they think?  What will they say?  How … Continue reading To Blog or Not To Blog

Ovarian Cancer

https://www.statnews.com/2016/04/01/ovarian-cancer-failure/   Getting a cancer diagnosis is like being hit by a  Mac truck.  I got mine while walking my dog, at 4:30 on a lovely July afternoon.  At that time I was worried about my 11 year old's baseball game, and my older sons education, when suddenly, BOOM. I had been having stomach pain … Continue reading Ovarian Cancer