Things I Want in 2017

It seems unlikely that I'll get divorced in 2017, so I've been thinking about things I want that I might actually get.  Here they are. a yoga top that holds me in without humiliating me while putting it on my own personal signal that beams from the roof of my car so I can find … Continue reading Things I Want in 2017

Deal Breakers = Boundaries

I've always thought that people who claim certain characteristics/beliefs/habits are "deal breakers" are excessively picky.  I've stood firm in this judgement.  One friend in particular has a ton of deal breakers:  he's shorter then I, he's not successful professionally, he's an engineer, he has no sense of humor, he doesn't like Bruce Springsteen, etc. etc. … Continue reading Deal Breakers = Boundaries