Narcissists Thrive on Non-negotiables! During the love bombing phase the narcissist learns what your non-negotiables are and emulates them, leading you to believe you've met your "soulmate". Even if you don't actually believe in soulmates, you will by the time the narcissist is done love bombing you. All of your non-negotiables, even ones you … Continue reading Non-Negotiables and Narcissists
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Measuring up to the “Cool Kids”
I have three blogs to write this week. Two have the potential to be profound, one is simply catty. Today I've chosen to go catty. My son spent the weekend with his dad and dad's GF. The GF lives in the popular development, with what I refer to as "the cool kids". These are people … Continue reading Measuring up to the “Cool Kids”
Divorce Attorneys: The Truth
I am cursed with the belief that when dealing with an adult, I'm being told the truth. I would think that by now I'd be over that, having been repeatedly lied to by my spouse, but no, I still take adults' words at face value. Given this, I believed my attorney when he expressed outrage … Continue reading Divorce Attorneys: The Truth
Groomed but Escaped 