Why It’s so Easy for the Narc to Screw Us

When I went to settlement, unloading the "home" I'd owned with my ex- narcissist, I found out that I was being held solely responsible for all outstanding fees, interest, and penalties on our mortgage.  Having been put through the wringer by Bank of America I was pissed off.  I wrote my lawyer  explaining everything BoA … Continue reading Why It’s so Easy for the Narc to Screw Us

Divorce and Your Mortgage

This is a serious rant, so if you aren't in the mood to listen to me bitch about what to many is trivial bullshit, Stop Reading.  I also curse. My ex stopped paying the mortgage on our jointly owned house in October.  He is living with his GF, and I am in our house with … Continue reading Divorce and Your Mortgage

What If?

I know....don't get your hopes up. Tomorrow is a hearing in front of a "Master" regarding distribution of property.  This is how a contentious divorce works in PA.   If the parties are not amenable to binding arbitration, the process is broken into 3 parts:  support, custody and equitable distribution.  On the surface this seems … Continue reading What If?