When I went to settlement, unloading the "home" I'd owned with my ex- narcissist, I found out that I was being held solely responsible for all outstanding fees, interest, and penalties on our mortgage. Having been put through the wringer by Bank of America I was pissed off. I wrote my lawyer explaining everything BoA … Continue reading Why It’s so Easy for the Narc to Screw Us
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Divorce and Your Mortgage
This is a serious rant, so if you aren't in the mood to listen to me bitch about what to many is trivial bullshit, Stop Reading. I also curse. My ex stopped paying the mortgage on our jointly owned house in October. He is living with his GF, and I am in our house with … Continue reading Divorce and Your Mortgage
What If?
I know....don't get your hopes up. Tomorrow is a hearing in front of a "Master" regarding distribution of property. This is how a contentious divorce works in PA. If the parties are not amenable to binding arbitration, the process is broken into 3 parts: support, custody and equitable distribution. On the surface this seems … Continue reading What If?
Groomed but Escaped 