Cats, Dogs & Sexism

  I have a cat and a dog, both of whom  I love.  My dog has been plastered by my side through chemo, divorce, moving: every moment of the 10 years she's been with me.  When I've been too sick to walk her she runs outside, does her business and gets right back in bed … Continue reading Cats, Dogs & Sexism

What I Meant To Do-Responsible Neighbor

  Last night it began to snow, and I knew by morning there would be about an inch on the ground.  I went to bed committed to the idea that I would be a good neighbor - I would wake up in time to clean off my stairs, and those of my elderly neighbors.  It … Continue reading What I Meant To Do-Responsible Neighbor

Let It Be

What Charlotte Taught Me Meet Charlotte.  She's the one with 3 legs.  I'm the one with 2 legs. While I might be the one writing this blog, I am only repeating what Charlotte taught me.   It might be useful to anyone going through any type of trauma, whether it be an illness, divorce, abuse, a … Continue reading Let It Be

Panic

I made it through Easter with a smile and grace on the outside.  On the inside, I can barely breathe.  While I've said this to no one, I honestly don't know how much more I can handle.   I feel like I dug a huge pit in the sand and voluntarily jumped in.  I then … Continue reading Panic

Cats, Dogs, & Self-Esteem

Even my cat's love was an illusion. I always wanted a kitten, but the rest of my family said no.  They were dog people.  The summer before 5th grade a friend of mine had kittens (actually, her cat had kittens) and I yearned for one of them, but the family consensus was no.  I left … Continue reading Cats, Dogs, & Self-Esteem