The Crime of Emotions

I was just told by my father "you always do this - you don't stop and think things through, then later you say 'oh, I wish I had done this differently'".    Why did he say this?  Because he didn't like a decision I've made. I asked him for some examples, and he started to … Continue reading The Crime of Emotions

Keeper of the Family

Over the last 3 years I've prepared to downsize.  Significantly.  I'm currently in a 3500+ square foot single home, and I've been preparing to move to a much smaller townhouse.  I've gone through every square inch of the house and thrown out or sold things I didn't need, and packed up our family memories in … Continue reading Keeper of the Family

Regrets

Today, on my 55th birthday, I find myself looking back at what I expected my life to look versus what is does look like.  What I expected was a career as a Psychologist, living a fulfilling life helping others, while remaining single.  What I got was very different. I wish I could blame it all … Continue reading Regrets