It Is Not Your Fault

Divorcing A Narcissist I have just come to a divorce settlement with my covert narc (CN).  It took almost 3 years, and it was hell.  As I get over the constant fear I realize how bad it really was.  The most important thing I've learned is this:   This was not my fault. I was … Continue reading It Is Not Your Fault

The Danger of Hope

Hope In Moderation My ex used to call me Debbie Downer.  He claimed that I always rained on his parade.  It's hard not to  believe things you are told over, and  over, and over, so I believed it.  I was the eternal pessimist, the one afraid to make any type of move, the one questioning … Continue reading The Danger of Hope