Words and Narcissistic Abuse

I didn't understand the power of words until I started recovering from narcissistic abuse.  My therapist started dissecting my language, and slowly I learned how toxic the narc (and other disordered people) are in their use of language.  I had put this issue aside until a co-worker started going through the separation/divorce process.  She started … Continue reading Words and Narcissistic Abuse

13 Projects

Yes - obviously plagiarized, but I think with merit. I recently decided to part ways with my realtor.  I interviewed 3 new realtors, and 2 of the 3 told me I needed to undo one of my favorite features of my house: the wallpapered risers on the staircase. This will be my final project, because … Continue reading 13 Projects

Personality Traits: Both Good & Bad

The Real Me -   I've been trying to figure out who I am.  I was the bad seed in my family; the one who didn't quite fit but gave others a great laugh (not with, but at).  I've worked hard all of my life to not be who I am, and now that I'd … Continue reading Personality Traits: Both Good & Bad