A Dress for My Ex’s Funeral

This is probably really bad for my karma but....... For Mother's day my eldest son and his GF took me to brunch at a restaurant in the city.   The restaurant didn't take reservations, so we wandered around while waiting for our table.  The section of the city is the current up and coming area, … Continue reading A Dress for My Ex’s Funeral

A Letter to the Narcissists Mother

As I near the end of my association with my ex narc I am pondering what I'd like to say to his mother.  Over the past 3 years there have been many a harsh word I would have loved to have shared with her.  As I see the end on the horizon, I've come up … Continue reading A Letter to the Narcissists Mother

Beginnings & Endings: Clues to Narcissism

I have 23 years of a relationship with a covert narcissist (CN) to dissect, and the question I keep asking my therapist is "are you sure?"  How can you be sure he really is a CN, and I'm not just re-writing our story?  What proof do you have that I didn't deserve to be treated … Continue reading Beginnings & Endings: Clues to Narcissism