Narcissists Feed On Shame

Shame is a new concept for me.  I lived it, but I never understood it.  From as early as I can remember I've felt a deep sense of shame, a belief that I was inherently such a bad human I deserved nothing. As a child I was called "practically perfect".  My family thought this was … Continue reading Narcissists Feed On Shame

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The Narcissist Describes Love

This is a "love letter" written by a narcissist.  It's a great read. This week I had dinner with my old nanny.  She was part of our lives for the 1st 5 years of our marriage.  She told me she missed how great we were as a family, she loved how much fun we had … Continue reading The Narcissist Describes Love

Thankyou, May I Have Another?

When I was young thin mint girl scout cookies were a big deal.  During the cookie season, one night each week our dessert would be thin mints.    On the thin mint nights here is what happened. Dad, sitting at the head of the table, would open a sleeve of cookies.  He would give himself 3 … Continue reading Thankyou, May I Have Another?

How Did Your Ex Introduce His Paramour to Your Children?

(As always, substitute her if you are a guy) I thought it might be fun for some of us regulars to share how our ex introduced his adulterer to our kids.  I'll go first.  I'll tell it from my point of view and his point of view (his in red.  Like Scarlet Letter Red) ME: … Continue reading How Did Your Ex Introduce His Paramour to Your Children?

Actions To Take When Divorcing A Narcissist

How To Survive Divorcing a Narcissistic Asshole In the Order You'll Face Them (I say guy, could be girl) If you are like me, you are heading in to a divorce with someone you suspect is a Bad Guy, perhaps  a narcissist.  Trust me when I tell you:  If you suspect it, it is true. … Continue reading Actions To Take When Divorcing A Narcissist