How to Lose Your Home To A Narcissist

Here I sit, on the precipice of a new year, and all I can think is What The Fuck??  How did I get here?  How did I become the one people whisper about in the grocery store.  “Oh, you remember her, she’s about to lose her house, and I know...it makes no sense.  How did … Continue reading How to Lose Your Home To A Narcissist

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The Humiliation of Divorcing A Narcissist

During this 3rd year of my separation I've become increasingly reclusive, and I haven't been sure why.  The other night I figured it out. I was talking to a friend who had just scarfed down 2 bagels and pound of M & M's and was in a shame spiral.  I'm the ideal person to call … Continue reading The Humiliation of Divorcing A Narcissist

The Gift of Me

  Tonight, after a particularly contentious legal day,  I sit writing. I am surrounded by the candles and Christmas decorations I've accumulated through the years, and wondering what they mean.  This is my 3rd Christmas separated, and it is the hardest, and I've been pondering this.  I'm sitting at my dining room table with the … Continue reading The Gift of Me

The Covert Narcissist & Lies

Wow.   Just......wow. 10 days ago my narc was caught lying.  He lied about his income and his affairs.  He stormed out of a deposition because he was confronted with evidence about his affairs.  He admitted to hiding income, lying about selling our business, and withholding pertinent information.  Lies on top of lies. Since he … Continue reading The Covert Narcissist & Lies

Divorcing a Covert Narcissist Really Hurts

After 2 1/2 years of this  divorce process you'd think I would be over the pain.   After all that has happened, during our marriage and during the divorce, I am still amazed when I feel like I've taken a dagger to my heart. I know my spouse is a psychopath.  I know he messed … Continue reading Divorcing a Covert Narcissist Really Hurts

Divorce, Foreclosure & the USPS

What, you ask, is this picture?  It is the 11 pieces of mail, mailed on the same day.   (In case that is not clear, each one is dated November 30, 2016, by the bank that sent them.)  Half were sent certified, the other half regular mail.  All were sent by our mortgage lender.  So many issues....where … Continue reading Divorce, Foreclosure & the USPS